One – Me! Me! Me!

  • Stable
  • Rational
  • Cold
  • Closed

One stands firm. It is independent and walks tall. One energy creates confidence and determination. One brings a sense of self worth. Number One uses expressions like “I can do this myself”, “I’ll do it my way”, or “If I want it done, I’ll be the one to do it.” People with significant ones in their chart are leaders, not followers. They do not hide behind anyone.

One energy does not often grasp that there is a world beyond its nose and that others count, too. Periodically it becomes necessary to remind the One that it is not the Grand Poo Bah, and that others can have a turn at the water slide. Number One can take itself far too seriously and lose its spontaneity and edge.

One is a curious number. It likes to push boundaries, to get out there in the world and experience things; it is an extroverted energy. One loves the hunt and the chase, especially in romance. Intimacy is as issue for One, and as much as Ones can be romantic, it is the pursuit of passion they love the most. The actual daily grind of a relationship can be problematic for them, as can navigating all that messy, icky, emotional energy.

Ones are not known for their patience or flexibility. They can become explosive bastards if things don’t happen as they believe they should. A Number One that clings tenaciously to expectations can turn into an overgrown spoiled brat if those expectations are not met.

One is a closed energy. There is a need for personal space over sharing with others. While it is rational and stable, too much One energy makes us emotionally distant, withdrawn, cold hearted, and angry. A more balanced One is independent, takes initiative, and has a good idea of their self worth.

Someone with no One energy in their chart needs to dig deep to access their confidence and determination. It is a good idea to engage in things that they are good at, to build confidence, before pursuing something new. There is a tendency, when no One energy is present, to give in or back down easily when faced with opposition. A person with no One energy in their chart tends toward being softer and more diplomatic, but now and then they need to put their crown on and raise their voice a little, to ensure that they don’t get lost in the shuffle.

When One’s energy is kept in check, they are:

  • Individualistic
  • Independent
  • Courageous
  • Determined
  • Ambitious
  • Resourceful
  • Driven
  • Good delegator
  • Daring
  • Passionate

When One’s energy runs amok, they are:

  • Verbally abusive
  • Attention seeking
  • Distant
  • Self centred
  • Intolerant
  • Bigoted
  • Jealous
  • Bossy


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